October was National Domestic Violence Awareness Month, this coupled with personal bias may have colored my viewing and subsequent review of Othello in which race has taken a backseat. Both Desdemona and Emilia are killed by their husbands respectively. Regardless of this common outcome the actual relationships beforehand had seemed to be total opposites. Othello and Desdemona had appeared to be this gentle in love couple whereas Iago and Emilia already displayed tension and distance. Prior to the death scene Iago is already seen as evil and violent, through his plot against Cassio and Othello and the murder of Roderigo, so the killing of Emilia doesn’t come as a surprise. However since Othello and Desdemona were portrayed as so in love the killing of Desdemona seems more tragic. Looking more thoroughly one can see the cracks in Othello and Desdemona’s marriage that lead to their tragic end.
Desdemona is one of the main topics of conversation in Act 1 yet she does not herself appear until Act 1, Scene 3 speaking for the first time around line 182. When discussing the wooing of Desdemona Brabantio, Desdemona’s father, accuses Othello of using witchcraft. Othello denies this claiming he won her solely on his language, “She loved me for the dangers I had passed, / And I loved her that she did pity them. / This only is the witchcraft I have used.” (1.3.193-195). This is saying though that Othello loved Desdemona because she loved him, not because of how he felt about her. Othello is more in love with her “hero worship” of him and his masculinity than with her. This will make Othello more unstable when he believes that her affections have shifted to Cassio. From the beginning Desdemona is more invested in the relationship than Othello, she is the one who asks to go to Cyprus with him. “Where Othello speaks of something like hero worship, Desdemona speaks of love…” (Garber 598).
The handkerchief plays a large part in the unraveling of Othello. When Iago receives the handkerchief from Emilia there seems to be a brief moment of faked flirting by Iago before he snatches it (3.3.344-368). You can see the love is gone from their marriage in which Emilia now only functions to serve Iago, with fear. In the following scenes Othello’s doubt of Desdemona grows. Contradictory to the beginning though Othello cites the almost magical or superstitious history of the handkerchief, with his parents’ marriage and those before. The first time Othello strikes Desdemona is quite public but all he is required to do is apologize. During one verbal fight in the bedroom Othello makes a gesture that caused my friend and me to look at each other and ask if Othello had just raped Desdemona, a distinct possibility. When compared to the slow pace of the beginning of the play once Othello becomes violent he escalates quickly.
Garber notes:
Othello’s notions of womanhood are, it appears, more conventional than Desdemona’s. He prefers a posture of obedience and admiration (‘She loved me for the dangers I had passed’), a woman who ‘knows her place’ and does not overstep it; yet as Iago will be quick to observe on the first opportune occasion, ‘She did deceive her father, marrying you’ (3.3.210). Desdemona’s outspokenness in the council chamber scene is welcome to her husband, but it is a harbinger of trouble ahead. She had told him she wished that ‘heaven had made her such a man,’ but he does not want her to act like a man in the political sphere.”
598-599
Othello shows internal conflict of wanting a strong woman yet needing to retain his own masculinity and superiority. His love towards Desdemona is more like that for the obedient dog than for a wife. This to me echoed in the blocking of the death scene in which Emilia, who as a woman and attendant to Desdemona was one of the lowest ranked characters, died on the floor, See Figure 1 (page 5). This scene lasted for quite some time in which both female bodies were left on the stage as props, opposed to Roderigo whose body was quickly removed from stage. Desdemona is left on the bed while Emilia’s body sags and crumples on the floor beneath, left loyally holding onto Desdemona’s hand. While Desdemona’s body was rearranged and cried over Emilia’s was simply left on the floor how she fell while no tears were shed. That showed the place of both women and those of lower classes.




